First time , didnt feel anything?

Well, it's not that makes the activity pleasurable, it's practice and technique. After many years of practice I've found that if the man slips out, it's just that and nothing to worry about. It's caused by moving around, not your looseness. The pleasure will come from the , learning to relax, and finding out what is good for each other, and he needs to learn about your oris and gentle stimulation. Also, fear of pregnancy is a big cause of the woman not getting pleasure out of the activity, so make sure you are well protected and in a stable relationship, and not having because that's what he wants rather than you wanting it.